May 22, 2012

I Can't Multi Task!!

......... any more than I already am.  I feel like I've been going non stop these days, and well...... it's because I have.  I know, I asked for all this.... and I wouldn't have it any other way (except maybe I'd add more sleep).  Every night I want to come to the blog and write all my thoughts and tell the stories of all the amazing and wonderful things that Vince and Zoë and Luca are doing.  Every morning I wake up and make the promise that I'll jot memories down, as I watch these amazing little people grow up and come into their own personalities.....and then I run around all day, drive kids here, change diapers there, feed this kid, feed that kid, and when I sit down, it's 10pm and I can't keep my eyes open, and instead I fall asleep thinking about what I would write.

I'd want to write about Vince, and how my little boy is growing up so quickly, and how I can't believe he's almost finished with his first year of preschool, and he's going to be 4 years old in less than a month.  I'd want to write about his spring concert at school last week, where he showed the audience his belly (again) and teacher had to go over and zip up his jeans (thanks Mrs. Ward!), while he waved and smiled at me and Kathryn the whole time.  I'd want to write about his adventures with his swimming lessons, his t-ball team "Molly Moo's Allstars", and how he has taken to running around the house "playing" our wii guitar.  I'd want to write about how when I've looked at him these last couple of days, I don't see a little toddler anymore, but an emerging little boy who has a passion for his trains and his books.
Here he is getting practice for his own pool at home ;)


 Vince with his buddies, celebrating shortly after their music show
 we love you Mrs. Ward!
 Vince taking out the t-ball stand along with hitting the ball
 running the bases!
And then there's Zoë.  I'd want to write about how absolutely adorable she is, even when she stands in the kitchen screeming at the top of her lungs for her 'baba'.  I'd write about how she gives the best hugs and cuddles, kisses her little brother on his bald little head,  and chases Vince while trying to give him hugs.  I'd want to write about how she can make me melt one minute when she grabs my neck and gives me tight hugs, while the next minute she'll give you the most evil death scowl look you've ever seen.  I'd want to write about how much talking she is doing, and how brave she is about climbing on things, and how much giggling comes out of her when she gets pushed in a swing. 
Vince can give kisses too once in a while
 shortly after that kiss
I'd want to write about Mother's Day, and how gorgeous it was as we spent the day at the Arboretum for Lilac Sunday.  Mike arranged for us to have a picnic, explore the gardens, and listen to music.  All five of us spent hours on our picnic blanket in the shade... making small trips to watch the fish in the pond, or chase a runaway child through the grass, and then coming back to lay down and watch the clouds float by.
 Zoë had fun hanging around....


 I'd want to write about how ridiculously hard it is to try and get photos of all three children together at the same time.  As soon as they see a camera, Vince and Zoë start acting like complete monkeys-removing any hopes that we'll someday have some good family portraits.  When I finally give up and put the camera away, I swear I see the hint of satisfaction glowing out of their little eyes.  We'll just have to keep trying..... 
 And then there's Luca, sweet little baby boy that he is.  I'd want to write about how amazingly easy this little baby is, and how he practically only cries when he's hungry or needs a diaper change.  I'd want to write about how he's starting to give me giggles-and that I can usually trigger them by tickling under his chin.  I'd want to write about how much his face lights up when one of his siblings comes over to talk to him, it's like watching a child getting giddy in a candy store.  He's just in awe of his brother and sister.  I'd want to write about how much he's already learned how to roll with the punches, and literally take a beating from his older siblings.  We try and watch as much as we can, but that poor boy gets his share of rough housing already.   I foolishly thought I would try and get a picture of all three kids in their "birthday suits".... and this is the best I could get.  Notice Mike's hand visibly forcing Vince to stop kicking his little brother.... who's obviously had enough of this.
stay tuned for more on trying to update.  Until then, I better get to sleep.    

May 6, 2012

No Rest For the Weary

So, my mom left back to California a little over 2 weeks ago now, and yes, that's why you haven't been hearing from me dear reader(s)!  Um.... this 3 kid thing is HARD!  I've also started back to work, the type that I actually get paid for, as opposed to the free labor I do at home.  I consider my job pretty challenging and stressful throughout the day, but compared to being home all day.... it's actually a break that I look forward too!  It's nice to get adult conversation in as well.  I love my kids, don't get me wrong!  I'm pretty exhausted, but feeling guilty about not keeping the blog up!  Here's the best I can do with jotting down things I want to remember about the last few weeks. 
-trying to get all three kids in the car to take Vince to school, and all three of them have poopy diapers (yes, Vince STILL won't go on the potty).  We are late already, which I naturally stress over (gotta stop that), I start to cry along with everyone else, then Vince and Zoë start laughing.... then I start laughing, and... well..... Vince made it to school and we made it through the day.
-Luca had a follow up swallow study done last week, and we were happy to find that he no longer has swallowing issues.  His throat muscles are strong and he's no longer dis-coordinated  We have started weaning him off rice cereal in his formula as he doesn't need it thickened anymore, we are so grateful for his health
-Vince started swimming lessons and t-ball!  More to come on that.
-Luca is getting more and more smiles in.   See below... my adorable little man!

-My new favorite thing to do is to try and get pictures of all three kids together.  Here's a few pics from that last couple weeks:
We got to meet Adam's new little sister Jacqueline!
-and I do enjoy wrapping him up in his very own towel after a bath

April 20, 2012

Sorry for the Confusion!

So everyone thought my mom had passed away on that last blog post...  guess I should check my writing a little more closely!  Not to worry, she's alive and well.... back in California! 
Meanwhile I've survived my first few days without her here to help us.  Today is my last official day of maternity leave, and to celebrate it I've been working on a slide presentation for a talk I'm going to give at the National Health Care for the Homeless Conference next month.  I'm pretty excited to be able to give this talk, I'll be highlighting our respite HIV team and how it benefits our homeless patients.  So... no slowly getting back into the work life for me!  Just taking the plunge right back in! 

In other news, we finally took a picture of Luca in one of Daddy's t-shirts... to take one every year on his birthday.  He's definitely a little chunkier than he would have been if we were able to take it at his birth weight of 4 pounds!

April 18, 2012

Mom's Headed Back to California....

This morning we had to say goodbye to my mom, who has been with us since November 11th.  She's headed back to her home in California, and we are truly sad to see her go!  She was an irreplaceable amount of help and good company to us while I was on bed rest, and while we had to go back and forth to the hospital for several weeks before Luca came home.  I really don't know what we would have done without her!!
Vince was already moping this morning, "Where's Grandma?!, why isn't she here in the kitchen like every morning!?".  I made sure to wake him up to say goodbye to her this morning, but I guess it's going to take a while before we get used to her absence.  Zoë has recently started yelling "Mama... where are you?!" when she's walking around the house sometimes (except the 'where are you' is turned into one long word of 'whehaaahyhhuu!').  She'll interchange mama with Dada... Vincent.... whoever she is looking for at the moment.  Well this morning it was "g'ama..... whehaaaahyhhuu!?".... for a little while.  Heart breaking!  We are all just hoping that she comes back to visit soon!!  I secretly hope that she misses the kids so much that she jumps back on the plane ASAP and comes back for a visit! 

Now I cannot say it was all roses and good times while she was here, we definitely got on each others' nerves here and there... but for as much time as she was here, I'd have to say it went pretty darn smoothly.  Here's a few photos I never got around to putting up:
My mom prepared some Swiss Fondue for us and we had a fun night of lots of cheese!  It was time the kids got introduced to their Swiss Heritage ;)
My mom was a trooper, considering we dragged her to almost every birthday party and Doctor's appointment we had!  Here's one picture I've been wanting to get for a long time: Vince with the Midwife that helped deliver him!  My mom wound up in that pic too....
She got a good handle on how to deal with Luca too
She got in lots of snuggling time...
And of course, we wait until the last day to get a photo of Grandma with all her grandchildren!  I'm soo bad it's ridiculous
ok, this time don't forget Luca please!!
We are sad to see you go mom!!  We'll try to get along without you!  I threatened that Vince would be lucky if he even got cold cereal in the mornings now, let alone the huge plate of bacon and eggs he used to get from Grandma every morning.  But this morning, after my mom left, I stayed up and made him his own big plate of bacon and eggs.... and somehow I managed to get Zoë dressed and fed, made Luca his bottle, dressed and fed him... and was able to get dressed and eat something myself.  Yes....maybe, just maybe... I will survive without my mom here.... but it won't be easy.

April 12, 2012

Easter

We thought Vince would wake us up early on Easter morning, so we could all go looking for his Easter Basket!  Well, 7am rolled around and we were still happily sleeping in bed.... NO VINCE waking us up!!  I started to get a bit worried because he never sleeps that late (I know, depressing isn't it), and when we heard bumping around the house I knew something was up.  I went downstairs to check out the scene, and I will always laugh when I think of what I came upon.  Vince was in the living room and comes over to greet me.... stating in his exact words: "Mom! I have exciting news! The Easter Bunny came and left me a basket!".  It was sort of dark in the living room still, so it took me a few minutes to realize that Vince had a huge chocolate ring around his entire mouth.... making him look bearded with a mustache (lol!).  I said "oh really, did the Easter Bunny happen to leave you chocolate!?"..... 
He had already inventoried all his chocolate stash and toys, and little remnants of chocolate wrappers were scattered all over the floor.
It was a miracle he didn't find Zoë's Easter Basket and riffle through hers too!  When Zoë woke up he helped look for her basket, and it's wasn't long before she had the chocolate ring around her mouth too.  But the poor thing had a fever and was out of it the whole weekend. 

Here's some pics of the great easter egg dying event.  Zoë just kept throwing hers on the floor, I'll spare you the mess it caused
We picked the 'monster kit' this year (LOVE the hair and 3 eyed options!)
Vince and Luca cleaned up real well and both opted to wear ties for Easter.  No pics of Zoë cause she was so ill :( Thanks to my mom for staying home with her!
Vince had a great time with Ramona and Lucy as they ran around the backyard looking for Easter Eggs
 Time to eat till we get sick!